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Rejoicing in Grief

Apart from the fact that depression eats its prey silently, it a way of subtly camouflaging itself as a seemingly peaceful state of mind, which is in reality, the exact opposite.



Romans 8:1 says ‘There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.’




Depression is not deep thinking, but meditating on the mistakes, ill-luck and unfortunate things that happened to one; not to spur one to positive response, but to bound such a one’s mind with the mind-set that he was born to fail.



Depression is a negative force. Like a magnet, it doesn’t come alone, it attracts negative results, output and circumstances to itself.



The way out?


Philippians 4:4

“Rejoice in the Lord Always. Again, I will say, Rejoice”


Finding a reason to appreciate God is a sure way to escape from the fangs of depression. Depression cannot dwell in the heart of a grateful soul.


Instead of regretting and feeling like a failure, give thanks to God in faith and hope that things will get better.



2 Samuel 12:15: “After Nathan returned to his home, the Lord made Bathsheba’s baby deathly ill.”


2 Samuel 12:16: “David begged God to spare the child. He went without food and lay all night on the bare ground.”


2 Samuel 12:17: “The leaders of the nation pleaded with him to get up and eat with them, but he refused.”


2 Samuel 12:18: Then on the seventh day the baby died. David’s advisers were afraid to tell him. “He was so broken up about the baby being sick,” they said. “What will he do to himself when we tell him the child is dead?”



David committed adultery with Bathsheba, Uriah’s wife, and as a punishment, God struck the child of their cohabitation with a deadly sickness.



David wept, fasted and prayed for the healing of his child. He prayed that God would preserve the life of his child. Still, the child died.


Such an occurrence is capable of destabilising even the most hardened of hearts. David lost his precious baby to the sickness.



But my interest in this study isn’t that David lost his baby, but what David did after the loss.



2 Samuel 12:20 Then David got up from the ground, washed himself, put on lotions, and changed his clothes. Then he went to the Tabernacle and worshiped the Lord. After that, he returned to the palace and ate.


Instead of weeping and cursing God for a child that was gone, David worshipped God and put on the garments of devotion to the sovereignty of God.


Thus, we learn that we might not be able to control everything that happens in our lives, but we can always determine our response to that situation.

There are certain things that our prayer might not have been able to prevent, such as the casualties from the Covid, or the Lockdown, but we can decide that in the midst of all these, we will remain grateful saints.


David never went into prolonged depression despite the loss of his child. Thereafter, God gave him another child who became richest and one of the wisest Kings of Israel.


Beloved, don’t be dismayed, because God will surely give you double of what you lost.



Instead of regretting, rise up, believe those wonderful things He has promised you and hold unto them.





Give thanks, rejoice, sing songs of worship and change your atmosphere from one of mourning, to one of rejoicing.

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Having a Realistic Goal



There is something I’ve seen under the sun which is dreaming big without having an achievable dream. Some seem to have forgotten that greatness begins from little things that may be disregarded or trivialized.

An adage says that “drops of water makes a mighty ocean.”

This validates that big dreams start from little dreams that are achievable. I’ve seen folks who had great calling upon them as well as massive prophetic declarations.

But they began to overlook their progressive personal growth simply because they were overly focused on the big dreams they were shown through those prophecies.

They have excuses for not achieving the basic and simple things such as soul winning, intercessory prayers etc. But they are not tired of believing that they would be great someday.

Unfortunately, such a day will never come into existence if they continue in that path. The secret to greatness is in your consistency in doing the right things. Commitment is what brings you to your desired greatness.

How can you desire to be a popular revivalist tomorrow, but you are inconsistent in your prayer culture?

How can one desire to bless nations, when one has not desired the blessing of one’s immediate environment. Such persons are slothful workers but bright dreamers.

I know of young aspiring ministers, who palliate their quiescence by using the phrase, ‘I am still coming up’.

This also is wrong. Laziness does not bring anyone up. Instead, it retards one’s spiritual growth.

The truth is that you come up through the things you do habitually. Coming up or improving on yourself is something to be done daily and not something to wait for as the years pass by.

To achieve your big dreams, start by achieving the small ones that will take you there . That is how to PREPARE FOR GREATNESS.
Apostle Ele Adejoh says “anybody that desires manifestation will take preparation MORE seriously”.
You should even avoid manifestations that does not come with preparation. Such a manifestation is what premature and dangerous.

Commitment, responsibility and preparation is pivotal to Greatness. Even faith cannot bring sudden Greatness.

Look at Abraham —the father of faith. He is a great man who was accredited with righteousness by Faith, but he did not trivialize works.

James 2:21. Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar?
Vs 22. Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect?
Vs 24. Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith ONLY.

To this end, the scripture concluded thus;

“For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead ALSO” James 2:26.

I know of believers who accuse the devil of thwarting their destiny and blame him for their failure in destiny fulfilment.

The truth is that such believers are the enemies of themselves, because you did not even work towards fulfilling their destiny. ‘As a believer’, no enemy is there to stop you if you consciously work towards your greatness.

Just like faith without works is dead, aspiration without preparation is dead.

Get started from achievable goals.

God bless you!

David Chikwado Caleb