First of all, understand that people are simply attracted to anyone possessing quality(s) that they find irresistible.
It could be character, beauty, money, or something else they fancy. Nobody gets attracted to anyone when they don’t see anything overwhelming in them.
But, it’s usually amusing when someone says they want to be loved just the way they are. It is an uncanny statement made by those who don’t want to take responsibility and work out their flaws.
It takes responsibility to work on yourself in areas you are lagging. Even if you are good or talented at something, improving yourself is not a bad idea.
For temperamental people, they would need conditioning in their personality because they may be unable to thrive in a relationship.
The reason is that they are excessively irritable and moody. They are extremely emotional when stimulated.
A temperamental man usually gets annoyed over seemingly minor matters. He should rather have to work on this flaw than expect a random lady to love and get committed to him in a relationship.
No lady would want a bulldog as a spouse.
Because eventually, she might just get turned into a punching bag.
For a believer who is temperamental, the assistance of the Holy Spirit can help him to handle his emotions.
Personal development is not solely for men. It is for both genders. Ladies are required to groom themselves into responsibility. Prime themselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
In Africa, women are expected to have competent skills in house management and meal preparation.
Therefore, single ladies in Africa are required to train themselves in these aspects. It is part of their personal development.
However, these skills are not gender-based. They should be something acquired by both men and women.
Ultimately, if any wants to be great in life, he should take responsibility by working on himself. Take an action and strive to be better than yesterday.
Don’t compel people to accept the faulty you when there are no visible efforts you make to get better. People will only chase after an ASSET rather than a LIABILITY.
REMAIN BLESSED.

